We have to understand what is truly beneficial

On the second day of Going Inward we looked at gratitude

After med­it­at­ing on body and breath, Munisha talked about grat­it­ude to the tra­di­tional three sets of people:

  • Our par­ents — who, if noth­ing else, gave us this life in which we are fol­low­ing the spir­itual path
  • Our teach­ers — any­one who has influ­enced us and helped change our lives
  • Spiritual friends — our peers and those more exper­i­enced than we are, any­one, Buddhist or not, who has been an inspir­ing pointer towards a richer, bet­ter life

In What is the Sangha? Sangharakshita writes:

If we don’t feel that some­thing or someone has actu­ally benefited us, we won’t feel grate­ful to them or to it. This sug­gests that we have to under­stand what is truly bene­fi­cial, what has really helped us to develop and grow as human beings.

We also have to know who or what has benefited us, and remem­ber that they have done so — oth­er­wise no feel­ing of grat­it­ude is possible.


He also states that:

the newly Enlightened Buddha was a grate­ful Buddha

- who spent some time star­ing at the Bodhi Tree in sheer grat­it­ude for its shel­ter dur­ing the period of his great realisation.

It’s inter­est­ing that his next impulse was to express his grat­it­ude in gen­er­os­ity — find­ing his five old friends to share with them what he had learned.

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